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This is today only so hurry!!

A New Friend Series

Here is another new friend I found!!




She offers some great giveaways, and does awesome reviews! I read her blog daily!

Here are current giveaways she is offering! Be sure to check them out, also dont forget, I will be hosting my own giveaway when I reach 100 followers, and we are 3/4 of the way there!! YAY!

Charm Factory Bracelet ends 2/4

Disclosure: I did not receive any compensation for my opinion, all opinions are my own, and you might not feel the same way as I do, I did however, receive extra entries into the giveaway.

**HOT** $5/$25 Walgreens Coupon

There is a HOT $5/$25 coupon right now at Walgreens!! Don't miss this one ladies, and gents!
My word it has been forever since we have seen one of these!!
These are typically good after all register rewards and coupons.
As a matter of fact, in the past 6+ months that I have been shopping at Walgreens, this is the first time since I have seen one of these! I saw them before I started shopping, but of course was not into coupons, cause I was the 'cool' mom on the block, and pshhh who needs coupons when your the cool mom right?! lol
Well, it has to be said, I am STILL the cool mom on the block, and a coupon fanatic! So I promise you can still be cool and use coupons! :0)
Enjoy!

A New Friend Series

I love meeting new people and looking at new blogs....so I have decided that once a week I will introduce/highlight a new blog to all of my readers, so that you may meet and have a new friend! Almost everybody that I read, or follow, will follow you back, if you leave them a comment asking so. So again this is a wonderful opportunity to meet someone new, gain a possible new reader, and explore a new blog!!

So first up!!!

Divalicious Deals
Another great thing about her blog, is she offers some GREAT give aways!!
Here are a few that are active RIGHT NOW! Go check them out, if you love to enter giveaways!
Also dont forget at 100 followers I will be hosting my own give away and guess what we are 3/4 of the way there!! Keep up the good work of spreading the word!!


Scentsy Gift Pack Giveaway ends 2/10
Gaddy Nipper Giveaway ends 2/10
Scentsy Buddy Plush Giveaway end 2/10


Disclosure: I do not receive any compensation for this post, I do however receive extra giveaway entries, all opinions are my own, and you may not have the same

Free Bath and Body Works Candle





There is an awesome Freebie on Facebook right now, you can get a free candle from Bath and Body Works, this weekend only! Just 'Like' their facebook page, and you will be able to print a coupon out for the free candle, just remember its this weekend only!!

My New Blog Button

That's right!! I have a new blog button that I totally love!! It is on my home page, and also has the text box, to where if you wanted to you would be able to 'Grab My Button' which I sincerely hope that you do!! :0)
Okay now for the story behind this headache of a button....ugh. So I finally learned how to create one, and that was the fun part obviously. And, if I haven't mentioned this before I am a TOTAL genius dumby when it comes to anything technical such as blog buttons, and other blogging things. Don't get me wrong, I know how to do a whole lot on the computer, to fix the computer etc, etc.
Anyhow, I met a really great person, who has very quickly become someone that I call my 'online friend' because she helped me when I was totally lost and clueless when it came to the HTML code for my blog button! So I emailed her and she totally fixed it for me in a matter of minutes! Not to mention, she has the coolest step by step instructions of many different things, including but not limited to blog buttons!
Anyways, I would love it if you guys checked out her site, Hip Chicks Guide to PMS, Pregnancy, and Babies!
And a personal thanks to The Hip Chick! Thanks so much for all of your help!

UPDATE: I am so VERY sorry that I had the link wrong, I have fixed it and I really hope that you take the time to check her out!! Let me know if the link is wrong again please, but I am pretty sure its right now!! :0)

Gerber 7 Day Giveaway Extravaganza!!




Click 'Like' on the Gerber Facebook Page, and then watch their status updates for the link to enter to win a FREE Gerber Product Coupon!! I cant wait, and just for you guys, I looked up the time of the other giveaways they are doing for the rest of the week!
Here they are:
Today: 3:30PM CST
Thurs: 7:30PM CST
Fri: 11:00AM CST
Sat: 2:00PM CST
Sun: 3:00PM CST

Good luck guys!! I totally hope that my good luck streak continues and I score one of these giveaways for my little Peanut, even though she totally does not need any more clothes!! More of that coming up in my Project 2011 Organization Post this week!! Stay tuned!

Wow Those Went Fast! Tide Washer Cleaners

Wow so it took exactly 2 MINUTES tops for the free 5,000 to be gone! Luckily I was able to snag one! lol Thank goodness, today is turning out to be a GREAT day! Also, A Special thanks to Cindi over at Blogging Hints, as she just notified me that I am going to be the next featured blogger on the Blog Hop! Woohoo!
Yes, today is indeed turning into a GREAT day!

The Saddest Day of My Life, January 23,2002

So, January 23rd, 2002...I went into labor with my first child, at midnight. I was young, so young, I had no clue what labor felt like. So, thinking that I was just really bloated or whatever, I foolishly get into a bathtub, which eased the pain for a while. Fast forward a couple of hours, and I am back to crying, hurting, and finally it dawns on me to wake my mother up and tell her something is DEFINITELY wrong! She rushes me to the Labor and Delivery Unit, and I immediately get checked in and checked out, only to find out, that I am fully dilated and ready to deliver, right then! I thought, surely there is some mistake, it was way too early for this. I was only 6 1/2 months along, and I was pretty certain that you needed to be wayyy further along before you welcomed a healthy baby into the world right?

Well, unfortunately I was right, you did need to be further along. Although, they didn't know if my son Dakota would come out alive or not....they weren't sure if they could save him. And they asked me one of the hardest questions THE hardest questions I will ever have to answer in my life, I hope. 'What would you like for us to do?' WHAT? 'Would you like us to try to save your son if he comes out alive and breathing? Keeping in mind, that he will almost certainly be deaf, blind, and have cerebral palsy?' Oh good Lord, what was I supposed to say?

'OF COURSE I WANT YOU TO TRY!!' It was the only logical answer I could think of, hello I am a mother! Not a monster! (This is what I was thinking back then at 16 years old)

Luckily, God made the decision for me, I had silently asked God to please guide me, and tell me what I was supposed to do, what He wanted me to do' And he decided to take Dakota Home with Him. Only 15 minutes before I delivered Dakota, his heart stopped beating.

I never in my wildest dreams nightmares, thought I would have to bury my child before I buried my Grandparents...Your child is supposed to bury you, not the other way around! 
Needless to say, it was so horrible, the most horrible day of my life. 

I left the hospital the next day just to go and make funeral arrangements, this was definitely not how this was supposed to work.

Anyhow, fast forward to the year 2011, as I sit here and honestly think about everything, if I had to do it over again, being older, more mature, having other children, knowing that I was indeed in labor and not to wait for the hospital, OR to NEVER get in a bath while your in labor as it only speeds up the process. Goodness sakes, what would I do?

What would I do, when the Dr asked me what I wanted to do if he was born alive? 

To be quite honest, I don't know, I think about it a lot, and I still don't know. Part of me says I would say no, don't do anything, what kind of life would my child have had in that condition, and part of me says it is totally heartless to not give him a chance, even though his life wouldn't have been the best it could have been with all of the 'issues' they say he would have had... I don't know, its mind boggling, I hate thinking about the different possibilities, all of the what ifs, I just don't know!

And it kills me that I don't. 

I would NEVER take ANY of my children back for the world, my angel baby or my living babies! They are ALL MY babies! And they always will be!

But it hurts that I don't know what my decision would be now that I am older, and have a better concept of what childrens' lives should be like. Not that there is ANYTHING wrong with any of the above mentioned handicaps BUT all of them together? 

Its just heartbreaking!

Anyways, thank you for letting me vent, I really, truly needed it right now!



Free Sample of Quaker Oats Cereal Squares


Go here to score a free sample of the new Quaker Oats Cereal Squares.

I saw these in the store the other day while shopping, and was really tempted to pick a box up, except I wasnt sure how well these would go over the kiddos, so I am again, super excited about this sample!

This is why I love samples, and I suppose why they offer samples right?

Have a great one guys!!




Free Sample of Breathe Right Nasal Strips







A Few Really Good Target Deals This Week!! 1/23-1/29

There are some pretty good deals at Target this week, that I will be adding to my shopping list!


Healthy Choice Cafe Steamers or Marie Callender’s Pot Pie – $2/ea
Buy 4, Get 1 FREE
Use B5G1 Healthy Choice Frozen Meal 1/2/2011 SS Insert (exp 2/28/2011)
PLUS
Use B3G1 Healthy Choice Frozen Meals TARGET coupon
Final Price = $1/ea when you buy 6 


Nature Valley Granola Bars-$1 (found in the $1 Section)
Final Price-$0.50

 Rimmel Extra Super Lash Mascara $2.24- $2.99/ea (Regular Price)
Use $2/1 Rimmel Lash Accelerator Mascara or Any Rimmel or
Use $1/1 Rimmel Product
PLUS
Use $2/1 Rimmel Product TARGET Coupon
Final Price = Free

 Rimmel Mono Eye Shadow – $3.49/ea (Regular Price)
Use $2/1 Rimmel Lash Accelerator Mascara or Any Rimmel 
PLUS
 Use $2/1 Rimmel Product TARGET Coupon
Final Price = Free
 Finish Jet Dry (4 oz) – $2.59/ea (Regular Price)
Use $0.40/1 Finish Jet Dry Rinse Agent or Turbo Dry 1/9/2011 SS Insert 
PLUS
Use $1.50/1 Finish Jet Dry TARGET Coupon
Final Price = $0.69/ea

Finish Quantum Powerball (12 ct) – $2.99/ea (Regular Price)
Use $1/1 Finish Quantum Detergent 1/23/2011 SS Insert  or
Use $1/1 Finish Quantum Dishwasher Detergent 1/2/2011 SS Insert 
PLUS
Use Use $1.50/1 Finish Quantum TARGET Coupon
Final Price = $0.49/ea

Lysol Neutra Air Fabric Mist (17 oz) – $2.50/ea
Use $1/1 Lysol NeutraAir Fabric Mist 1/9/2011 SS Insert 
Plus
Use $1/1 Lysol NeutraAir Fabric Mist Target Coupon 
Final Price = $0.50/ea



Do you have a Target shopping Trip planned this week? If so, please tell us about it! I would love to hear about any great finds! Just leave a comment in the comments section and link up to your Target finds!





Super Saver Sunday Shopping Trip, Target spent $1.93 OOP Saved $47.76

So here it is, I do think I am going to change this from Super Saver Saturdays, to Super Saver Sundays, because, I do all of my shopping on Saturdays, so its next to impossible to go shopping, take pictures, and write a post on the savings all in one day, of course couple that with taking care of the family and house, and yes, quite next to impossible! :0)

So here it is, this is what I bought

Kens Salad Dressings (2) -$1.75 ea
Ortega Taco Shells -$1.25
Kellogs Cereal- $4.99
Quaker Oatmeal- $1.75
Frozen Carrots- $.99
Jamba Juice Frozen Smoothie- $2.29
Minute Maid Orange Juice- $2.64 BOGOFree Coupon
Yopliat Trix Yogurts (2)- $1.99ea
60W Reveal Lightbulbs (2)- $2.44 ea
Garneir Skin Cleansing Cloths- $2.04
Blistex Lip Balm- $1.02
Maalox Mint (2)- $4.94ea
Band Aides Hello Kitty (2)- $.97
AA Batteries Ever Ready (2)- $1.00ea
Nature Ready Granola Bars (2)- $1.00ea

Total Before Coupons- $49.69
Total After Coupons- $1.93

You CANT beat that! I wished I would have taken a picture once again, but I was in such a hurry to get dinner started that I just whipped everything out and had it put away in 5 minutes flat!

I will try to get better at taking pictures, because I know, I picture can say a thousand words!!

Please let me know of your recent shopping trips where you have saved money and been super proud!

Adding Blog to a Blog Directory

So I was'nt sure where to post this at, so I figured I might as well post it here! lol
Sorry guys, as you can see I am still very new to the blogging world, but am trying my best to learn as quickly as I can. :0)

Anyhow, Click HERE if you would also like to add your blog to the blog directory over at Blogging Hints... (see told you I am trying to learn quickly lol)

Thank you so much for your patience with me! <3 you guys!

Free Beech Nut Toddler Welcome Kit



Go HERE  and sign up for their free newsletter,

and in return you will receive a free Beech But Toddler Welcome Kit!!

Free Sample of the NEW CoverGirl





Hey Girls, GO HERE to receive a free sample of the New Covergirl Make up....


It is called NatureLux Foundation


I am excited about this one, cant wait to receive my sample!!

Intro To Project Organization 2011 (Project 1)





So, although my home pretty much looks spotless at first sight, sadly, its not. I am SO unorganized it is really crazy! Another problem I have it getting rid of things, I just cant bring myself to do it!! I have to keep everything! lol


So in an effort to get organized, and get my home and myself organized I am doing something called 'Project 2011'. I am giving myself the entire year, since I really am just totally unorganized and at first, had no idea how to go about getting started!


But recently, I happened upon the most wonderful website called 
Tip Junky!!! She has sooo many creative and totally cute worksheet that you can print off, and you can even make an 'Executive Home Binder' it is so cute! I am a sucker for girly things and worksheets, I cant find then hardly anywhere! But oh no, she has got them! I am super excited to get started just because they are so cute!


So the end of next week I will post my progress. And pictures of the before and after the specific project for the week, which by the way which will be about: 'My itty bitty Peanut has more clothes than big Bubba, middle Ladybug, and Mommy and Daddy COMBINED!!!'


Honestly, this little baby certainly does!! It is crazy, but for me, baby clothes, especially itty bitty princess peanuts baby clothes are soooo hard to let go of! They are so adorable and I just cant seem to choose which ones to get rid of and which ones to keep! 


I have to stop there, or I will give away all of the details!


Check back next week!



Book Review of The Month





I reviewed a book called 'Divine Appointments' by Charlene Ann Baumbich


I absolutely enjoyed reading this book. I am an avid reader anyways, and, when I start a book and get past the first few chapter, its extremely hard for me to put it down before its finished!


So I finished this book in record time, 2 days!


Here is what I thought:
  This book was excellent, Josie Brooks, is a woman fastly approaching the big 5-0...she has yet to be married, have children, or do anything but make herself a very successful career woman. She has no problems finding a job and up and leaving at a moments notice to move on to her next employment opportunity in another state across the country if need be. 


Until she started the job at Diamond Mutual and becomes somewhat close to the employees there...and the bleeding heart of a boss the company has.


And then the snow globe that keeps doing weird things, hmmmm, maybe a change is in order after all.


This is definitely a must read for any strong, independent woman.


I give this book a 8 out of 10


Definitely check it out if you love to read!

A New Resolution Kinda :0)

SOOOOO, here it is, when I hit 100 Followers, I will be hosting my first Give away!!


That will leave me just enough time to figure out how to pull it off. lol


As I am so new to the blogging thing, and still have lots to learn!
Like how to change my page up, add widgets, how to host a blog give away, etc. 


Yes I am sure a lot if not, all of you, knows how to do this. And, although I am pretty Computer Savvy, I just don't understand how to do these seemingly simple little tasks! lol


If you have some hints, tips, advice, PLEASE clue me in!!


Lots of Love,
Karissa

Walgreens Deal of the Week 1/16-1/22

Here are the best deals I see at Walgreens this week, and my personal shopping list of items I am going to try to get, but check back on Saturday to see what all I bought and how much I paid out of pocket, and how much I saved!!!


Vicks Sinex- $5 ea Get $10 RR
Buy 4 Vicks Sinex 
Use (4) $4/1 Coupons from 12/26 PG Insert
Pay only $4 out of pocket! And earn $10 RR!!!
That is a GREAT money maker!


Kraft Homestyle Mac and Cheese- $1.67
buy 2 use (2) $1/1 coupons SS Insert 1/16
plus use $1/2 Wags Printable
$0.16 ea


Carefree PantyLiners- $0.99 w/ in ad coupon
use $0.50/1 coupon SS Insert 1/9
$0.49 ea


Dulcolax Products- $6.49
use $3/1 in ad coupon
plus $3/1 printable
$0.49 ea


Softsoap Liquid Hand Soap- $0.99 w/ in ad coupon
use $0.35/1 SS insert 1/2
$0.64 ea


Skintimate Shave Gel- $1.99 w/in ad coupon
use $1/1 coupon SS 1/16
$0.99 ea


Jimmy Dean Breakfast Bowls or Biscuits-$2
use $1/1 printable
$1 ea


Full Fast Appetite Control Spray- $10 get $10 RR
Free after RR


Thermacare Trial Size Heat Wrap- $2.50 get $2.50 RR
use $1/1 printable
Free plus overage after coupons and RR


Joint Juice Glucosamine- $10 get $10 RR
use $1/1 printable
Free plus overage after coupons and RR


Toms of Maine Toothpaste, mouthwash,or deodorant- $3.99 get $3 RR
$0.99 after RR


Fusion Pro Glide Razor- $9.99 get $5 RR
use $4/1 coupon P&G insert 12/26
$0.99 after coupon and RR


Buy 2 Advil, Robotussin, Dimetapp- $5ea get $5 RR
use (2) $2/1 printable or
use $1/1 RP insert 1/2
As low as $1.50 ea after coupons and RR


Those are the best deals I see this week, I hope you get a chance to get out and snag a few deals!! And if you do, please tell me about it on Super Savin Saturdays post!
Thanks!


CVS Deal/Coupon Match-ups! CVS Weekly Deals 1/16-1/22

I am so sorry its taken this long to post the Weekly Deals for CVS and Walgreens, I promise to get better about posting these on Sundays, just with all the kiddos home its hard to get a moments peace lol.


And here are the best deals I see, and my personal shopping list!


Chestal Cough Syrup- $5 get $5 ECB
plus use this $1/1 Printable to turn this into a money maker!




Listerine Mouthwash- $3.99 get $1 ECB
use $2/1 Printable
Free after coupon and ECB


Colgate Toothpaste- $2.99 get $1 ECB
use $1/1 coupon from SS insert 1/2 or 1/16 
$0.99 after coupons and ECB


Crest or Oral B Toothpaste- $2.99 get $2 ECB
use $1/1 P&G insert 1/16 or
or use $2/1 P&G insert 12/26
as low as FREE after coupon and ECB


Toms of Maine Toothpaste, deodorant, or mouthwash $3.99 get $3 ECB
$0.99 after ECB


Dawn Hand Renewal Dish Soap- $0.99
use $.50/1 PG Insert 12/26
$0.47 after coupon


Duracell Batteries- $2.99
use $1.50/1 RP Insert 12/12


Those are honestly the best deals I see at CVS this week, and I will be picking up everything listed, or perhaps not, check back on Saturday for my Super Savin Saturday post to find out what I scored and how much I paid out of pocket!! Cant wait!!


If you would like to see a full list of CVS deal you can go here!


Thanks guys!

My Itty Bitty Miracle

Well, I wanted to create this post, so that you guys understood what was going on every time I go MIA lol. I have been feeling horrible about it and I think you guys deserve an explanation to why I am not consistent with my posts!! :0)


Meet Peanut, my youngest girl. And who happens to be my itty bitty miracle baby!


Peanut is the nick name she earned while spending two weeks in the NICU, this was taken right after she was born, and then I didn't get to hold her again until I took her home two weeks later, because they rushed her out of my room and up to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU).


Turns out Peanut had two major types of Jaundice (the yellow skin disease) she had the type that turned her skin yellow, which is no biggie there are lights that cure that. BUT, she Also had one type that was rare that attacked her Liver. BIG DEAL!! lol


So on top of only being 4 LBS when she was born, she also had these jaundices!
Jaundice is horrible, it causes the baby to not want to eat, which in Peanuts case was really bad because she was so tiny to begin with.... and the other type of Jaundice she had caused her to just feel icky.


I couldn't touch, hold, or do anything with her while in the NICU, she had tubes everywhere and I big IV in her head. IT was heartbreaking to say the least! I was driving up to the hospital every two hours to feed her (breast milk is one of natures cures for Jaundice) and since she was so tiny she had to eat more often so every two hours I was driving up there no matter what!


Anyhow, Peanut got better after a couple of weeks and came home. Here is a picture taken at home after a few days to adjust.
Just to show how itty bitty she was!!


What can I say I am a diet coke momma! lol But honestly look how tiny! Right?


So anyhow, all was good and well until October came around and Peanut started having a lot of wheezing in her chest. And from October until this very day we have been fighting to find out whats wrong with her. The Dr's are baffled, she does not have RSV (A lung virus that ALOT of preemies get) we could have swore it was RSV but nope! No flu, she got tested for three different kinds of flu.... we just have no idea. They wont diagnose her with Asthma yet, even though myself and my oldest 5 yr old have asthma. So instead were just stumped! She will be seeing a pulmonologist this coming month which is a Lung Dr. so I am happy about that to say the least! We are still doing breathing treatments every 2 hours, and taking lots of medicines.


But ya know? This little girl is such a fighter! She is so strong, and I know she will pull through, but there is nothing like the feeling of hopelessness a mother gets when she nor the Dr's knows whats wrong with her baby!!


Anyhow, here is a current picture of Peanut! Oh ya and she was born on August 31st,2010.


Excuse the side ways view lol


Anyways, that's what happens when I go MIA, I am either super busy or having to take Peanut to Dr's, hospitals, specialists, its never ending!


So please forgive me if I don't post for a couple of days, I promise I have not forgotten about my wonderful readers! 


And yes! I will keep you updated on Peanuts progress and what we find out at the specialist!!


Thanks for being so patient with me!

Get Free Traffic to Your Blogs! This is Awesome.....

I just registered for a site that gives you free traffic to your blog! You register, once you register your blog will be in the 'featured' section of this site that has 250,000 members, and they can review your blog, and leave feedback, and you can do the same! To me, its a win-win situation. I dont know about you, but for me personally I was excited to find this!

You can go here to sign up.


free web site traffic and promotion

And see for yourself!!

Let me know what you think!!

Thanks

Follow Me Back Tuesday Blog Hop

Join the fun!!!
Go HERE to enter into this great blog hop!!! 
I cant wait to meet some new friends!

Please remember to follow anyone back who follows you, this is how we make new friends and grow our blogs!

Have Fun!!

If you choose to follow me, please be sure to leave a comment so that I can Follow you back!!! Thats what this is all about!

And I ALWAYS follow back! I love finding new blogs and friends!!

P.S for some reason I cant get the blog hop button to show up in this post, maybe somebody could help me out on how to do this? lol I have the code, I am just unsure where to enter it at!!

Thanks!!!

Free Sample of Nicorette Mini Lozenges



You can GO HERE to receive another free sample of Nicorette Mini Lozenges!!

I am super excited about this freebie, because I have tried to quite smoking many times now, and every time I fall of the band wagon! I have heard that its super hard, but Wowza!! I never imagined it would be this hard!
What was I thinking when I was a teenager!!! I am sure all of us has had a moment like this lol as we get older we sit back and think 'WOW was I really this stupid?!' lol

Anyhow, its a Sams Club offer so you have to enter a 9 digit number, I always just enter 9 random digits and always receive my samples with no problems, but again, its completely up to you what you want to do!!

Free Sample of Focus Factor



Go HERE to get a free sample of Focus Factor from Sams Club

You will need to enter a 9 digit number for the Sams Club site, but I have always just entered 9 digits and it has gone through just fine! So its up to you...

Thanks, Passion For Savings!!

Free Sample of Nexxus Pro Mend

You can go here to get a free sample of Nexxus Pro Mend Hair Product

This looks pretty good, I have heard that Nexxus makes good hair care products! But again, this is another thing that is out of my budget if it doesn't really work very well!

Good thing I get to check it out first!!

Enjoy!

Free Sample of Crest 3D Whitestrips



GO HERE to receive a free sample of Crest 3D White Whitestrips!!


This is a great freebie for me, because I always have high value coupons for these, but dont want to spend the money if they dont really work! Ya know?


So I cant wait to try these out!


Hope you guys can get in on this deal!

Free Variety Sample of Nescafe Tasters Choice Coffee





Go HERE to recieve your free sample of Nescafe Tasters Choice Coffee Sticks, 
5 sticks come with this sample pack, and I believe they are all different flavors?

Free Being Girl Sample Pack


Go HERE to get your Being Girl Sample Pack,

Which includes 
3 Tampax Pearl Tampons
2 Always Ultra Thin Pads
2 Always Thin Liners
And Coupons!! 


Dont Miss out!

Play Toaster Strudel Game (U could WIN!!)




Click HERE to Play!!

You could win toaster Strudels for a MONTH!! (Up to four boxes)

Thanks,
1grown2togo!!

Dot Com Vs. Blog Hosting Sits (eg; blogspt,wordpress,ect.)

I wondered what you guys thought the pros and cons where of .com's vs. blogspot ect?


I was considering becoming a .com, but I am really unsure what all that entails.
Do you get more features?
More Visitors?
Is it easier to find your blog?
Hmmm, for all of my .com readers, what do you like about being a .com? What do you dislike if anything?


Same for my blog hosting site bloggers, what do you like? Dislike? 


I would really love to know, I am trying to learn more and more about blogging as time allows, with three little ones, and a super sick baby... Time does not allow much! lol


Thats where you, my wonderful, supportive, readers come in!!
Please let me know honestly what your opinions are.


What does it take to run a .com site? 
Is it more work?


Ugh, help I am so confused!! 


Thank you so very much!!